Always ask it. To satisfy your curiosity. To validate or repudiate others’ assumptions or logic. To assess others' assumption of your reason for asking it. So you don’t make the same mistakes.
Showing emotion is weak. Plot to crush.
Then every surprise will be pleasant.
If you already get the point...
Not just say you're going to. Especially when you're the only person holding you accountable.
And it must be controlled. Who are you to exert yours unfairly over another? Know there’s always someone who can do the same to you.
Never come back. - Unknown