And it must be controlled. Who are you to exert yours unfairly over another? Know there’s always someone who can do the same to you.
While in control of decision making, also needs validation. Just another human being. Who holds the power?
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Go out of your way to demonstrate it. Create a situation if needed. Make it seem happenstance and genuine. It will forever give you power.
So don’t be afraid to give a lot of it away for free. The one’s who act spitefully will only hurt themselves. And the one’s who care will join forces with you.