Forgiveness isn’t about the person in question of your forgiveness. Forgiveness is for you. For ease of moving on. For peace and tranquility of mind.
Take one away. Pissed. Give only one to begin with. Ecstatic. What you don’t know won’t hurt you; Be happy with what you’ve got; You are entitled to nothing.
And gives that funny feeling in your gut. Include it in your everyday life. And it will take everyday to another level.
It’s not completely true, but not entirely untrue. It’s just true enough to convince you to buy into the idea. True enough to get you to agree. True enough to make you go against your instinct to ask deeper questions or call the bluff.
Stick with it and go all in. Searching for something "better" will result in second-guessing and regrets. You know what you like when you first see it. Act on your instinct and enjoy.