Because you still need social skills to get you places. Because we haven’t evolved to not need human interaction. Because being present will reduce anxiety. Because without people, you’ll just be alone in your living room with your device.
In any series-process. So everyone helps not only themselves, but also the next fella. Until the process is complete. "Help me help you” is the attitude to instill.
The sooner you get it, the more time you'll save. And every yes will be well deserved.
Out loud. Even if to an imaginary audience. You’ll quickly find your gaps.
Or making excuses? Know the difference.
Go out of your way to demonstrate it. Create a situation if needed. Make it seem happenstance and genuine. It will forever give you power.