Or most guilty of.
Forgiveness isn’t about the person in question of your forgiveness. Forgiveness is for you. For ease of moving on. For peace and tranquility of mind.
Because you still need social skills to get you places. Because we haven’t evolved to not need human interaction. Because being present will reduce anxiety. Because without people, you’ll just be alone in your living room with your device.
Then every surprise will be pleasant.
Thinking too far ahead will cause anxiety and lack of focus. Put the strategy in place and take it in bite-size chunks.