No. It is a big deal.
It can be argued that nothing is really a “big deal”: It’s not life-changing. You’ll get over it. You can live without it.
But that doesn’t mean anything.
Whether or not it’s a big deal is not the point – it’s never the point. The consequence is the point. Your values is the point. Precedence is the point. Everything it represents is the point.
And all that is a big deal, because you have to deal with it.